It would be unfair to have a general rule to every guy because they are all individuals stories, not just chapters in one big book. But the guy I’m looking for is the guy I can be me around, not a version of me i think he’d like. He’s the guy i’m not wearing different clothes for. I’m not holding back jokes because he might think they’re stupid. I’m not afraid to show emotion because I might scare him. It’s important to not have rules about who the guy is. The rule should be about who you are when you’re with him.